The author joined their friend Jon for a jam session at Secret Studios and realized why they had never finished a song as a teenager. Looking back, they felt ashamed of how they had been getting in their own way, but also inspired by what they now felt empowered to do.
The pair began by identifying the state of flow they both loved: for the author it was writing, and for Jon it was music and skating. Their chorus hook, "It all just falls away," came from those moments of total absorption. The author admitted that as a teenager, a fear of diluting their songs with other people's choices had kept them from finishing anything.
Jon took a very different approach. They borrowed openly from other artists, building a playlist, studying tempos and chord progressions, and even converting a guitar riff into a vocal rhythm. None of these pieces had to be perfect, because they were only sketching. Jon's guiding principle was to make decisions in service of the song, not the parts. The author saw that their earlier fear came from scarcity, while jamming with Jon revealed abundance.
The author now recognizes that great songs emerge through hundreds of mediocre ones, and that creative expression thrives within shared constraints. The key is to focus energy where it counts most. The author also connects this lesson to software engineering and startups, and plans to keep shadowing artists to learn how they make creative choices.
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