Cincinnati Bengals defensive end Boye Mafe centers himself before each game by speaking to his late mother, Bola, who died of pancreatic cancer in 2018. In a private moment, Mafe shares his game vision, telling her he wants to "put on a show" and signaling "I love you" in American Sign Language. This ritual extends after every sack.
Mafe, the son of proud Nigerians, maintains strong cultural ties despite generational distance. His mother, Bola, was more than a seamstress on 1110 Lowery Avenue in North Minneapolis; she was a cultural hub who volunteered at a battered women's shelter and supported her church choir. When Bola was diagnosed, Mafe and his brother Domi ensured her comfort.
Her resilience, never crying or expressing sadness, deeply impacted Mafe. He strives to bring that joy into his life. Before the 2023 Monday Night Football broadcast, Mafe's signing to his mother was highlighted as a great look.
Of his six siblings, Mafe spent the most time in his mother's shop, learning her values of patience and community investment. Mafe's on-field performance and pregame outfits all honor the systems that built him into one of the NFL's leading pass rushers and a Super Bowl champion. He remains true to himself, refusing to let circumstances dictate his identity.
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