Never complain, never explain is a public relations strategy particularly associated with the British royal family. The phrase originated with British Prime Minister Benjamin Disraeli and was popularized by writer Benjamin Jowett. It advises that a person is judged by their character as a whole, not individual acts.
Writer Walter Bagehot viewed the strategy as essential for maintaining royal mystery. Queen Elizabeth II famously followed this approach throughout her reign. However, Prince Charles and Diana abandoned the strategy in the 1990s, citing its limitations in correcting media stories.
Prince Harry referenced the motto in a 2023 interview promoting his memoir Spare. The motto remains a favorite of personalities including Zsa Zsa Gabor, Simon Le Bon, Kate Moss, and Raine Spencer, Countess Spencer. The strategy has shaped royal media relations from the 19th century to the present day.
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